Former jockey Libby Hopwood opens up about OnlyFans, her open relationship and attending sex parties

Jockey-turned-OnlyFans creator Libby Hopwood has revealed she’s an exhibitionist at heart which lead her to her new career in the adult industry.

The 36-year-old admitted her screen name Foxy Miss was inspired by the fact she loves putting on a foxes tail when she’s in the mood, especially at sex parties.

Speaking on Samantha X’s podcast, Xposed, Libby also revealed her disappointment at being ‘outed’ to her former colleagues who had very mixed reactions about her career choice.

One mentor threw up his hands in disgust, while others asked for freebies or messaged their condolences to her partner, Ben. Libby was forced to end her horse racing career in 2014 after a horrific fall on the track before getting a job as a Sky Racing presenter.

A year ago she tried her hand at OnlyFans posting a nude photo with ‘everything covered’ by her cello but left the account on the back-burner.  

‘I’m obviously somewhat of an exhibitionist, I enjoyed the idea of doing it and then I chickened out so it sort of sat there and I didn’t do anything with it. Five, six months ago, I was like, ‘you know what? I’m gonna do it again’,’ she said.

‘I’ve got the support of my partner and I’ve been more open about it this time. It’s bit of a dynamic shift but I’m excited about it and happy to put it out there.’

Libby dove in knowing little about the platform or anyone else who was making a living off it but quickly racked up a throng of fans. 

She wasn’t ready to attach her identity to her OnlyFans alter ego so called herself Foxy Miss, a name she still uses today, however some close friends knew about her saucy side hustle.  

‘In our little kinky world, I love wearing foxes and a fox tail. I feel adorable dressed as a fox. I also like how feral and playful foxes I speak to me on a human level,’ she said.

However, the face behind Foxy Miss was exposed after someone leaked her private content within the racing community. 

‘We were actually in Europe on a holiday and somebody sent me a Snapchat along the lines of ‘Can I get a freebie?” she recalled. 

‘I messaged my friend who was back in Sydney I was like ‘I think my OnlyFans has blown up’, she’s like ‘I actually wanted to wait until you’re back in Sydney before I spoke to you about it, I didn’t want to ruin your holiday but it’s everywhere’.’ 

The images and footage spread like wildfire among everyone Libby knew and she said she was getting ‘a million messages’. 

‘There was nobody in racing doing all OnlyFans and I knew there was going to be a stigma around that because racing is a dinosaurs game,’ she said.

While many people have been supportive of Libby’s new lucrative career, she has been met with backlash even with colleagues she worked with for years. 

‘One of my trainers who I have a great deal of respect for and I’ve worked for him and my other role with horses for years, had a quite a visceral reaction,’ she said.

‘He was like, ‘What the hell are you doing?’ and threw his hands up, walked off and sort of didn’t talk to me.’

She wasn’t surprised by the negative reactions as racing has a lot of ‘old school’ and ‘conservative’ characters. 

‘People always are lashing out, especially against our bodies and our sexuality because that is the most weaponised thing against women…It’s low hanging fruit, it’s easy to take a shot at it,’ Libby said. 

‘I don’t care what they have to think. The work that they need to do to become a better person to be nicer in the universe, they’re not going to do that so there’s no point me getting upset about what they want to spew back at me.’ 

People have also reached out to Ben assuming he was kept in the dark about Libby’s OnlyFans. 

‘I had a few people reach out to Ben. Hilariously, when it was in the newspaper, they would reach out to Ben and were like, ‘I’ve got your back’,’ she said. 

‘A couple of clients of mine were like ‘What does Ben think?’ I was like ‘Who do you think is taking the photos?’.’ 

Libby said making OnlyFans content with Ben is like ‘foreplay’ and the pair always have sex afterwards. 

She also revealed they are in an open relationship and regularly attended sex parties together.

‘People can love other people and it doesn’t detract from your relationship from somebody,’ she said. 

‘We’re only able to be in this relationship because our communication is so good so we talk about absolutely everything.’

Libby said she like to connect with both men and women on a physical level at the swingers parties.

‘I can connect with people physically, Ben, actually, which goes against everything you know about men and women, needs more of a connection than I do,’ she explained

‘I don’t want to date other people, I’m happy to play with them at parties, I’m happy to have awesome friendships with them…Ben likes to date people and build connections.’

Libby said she has always wanted to explore open relationships but struggled with jealousy in the early days and worked through it with ‘lots of talk and lots of time’.  

‘It’s taken us a long time to get to the point now that when I see him connect with someone, it’s like, ‘Yes’,’ she said.

‘It gives me pleasure seeing him have that connection with someone and I have absolutely no concern about the threat.’

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