A woman has been left heartbroken after her fiancé made the brutal admission that he might cheat on her – and is now left wondering if she should call off the wedding
Finding out your partner has been unfaithful is never nice – but what do you do if they admit beforehand there’s a chance it could happen?
One woman has revealed she’s set to marry her partner of seven years – but has now been left stunned at his recent admission when he told her he’s worried he might “cheat on her” if they stay together.
She explained how they had planned their future together, and were just about to move into a new house and have spoken about having children, but claims she’s shocked at what he has now told her.
The 24-year-old admitted the pair have lost their “spark” but instead of trying to fix it, she claimed her fiancé, 25, told her he could be unfaithful. She took to Reddit to share her situation and said: “I moved to another state for him. In my eyes he is the one, he is the only person I could ever be with, and I can’t imagine a life without him. We always talk about getting married, having kids, and travelling together. We have already been living together for 6 years but we JUST signed a lease a month ago for a new place together.”
“He said if he stays with me he is scared that he will cheat on me. I feel like I haven’t been in a good head space the past couple years because I’m trying to figure out a new career path and going back to school, and it’s all so stressful.” The shock admission came after she said he met up with an old classmate and claimed she was a “great listener”.
She further claimed he told her he felt like “something was missing” and then admitted he may cheat on her if they stay together. The bride then admitted that she hadn’t been in a “good head space” for the past two years and said she’s been stressed about her career and studies.
Her fiancé has also struggled due to a close friend of his passing away and revealed she noticed the decline in their relationship. “I care for him, and try to have talks with him about this, but he said our connection lacks the depth he needs, and he feels unfulfilled. Is there any way to rekindle this relationship? Has anyone tried going on a break before and getting back together?” She asked.
Fellow Redditors were quick to chime in with their thoughts as one person said: “Here’s what will happen: you’ll stay and he’ll use this an excuse to cheat, or you’ll leave and in six months you get to laugh in his face because he isn’t the chick magnet he thought he was and the grass isn’t greener.”
A second added: “He’s really attracted to someone else and feeling the rush of a new attraction/relationship. Yours is over. Don’t stay with him. Try to find an affordable living arrangement and move on.”
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