A woman has been slammed for admitting she divorced her husband so she could enjoy a ‘hot girl summer’ in Miami – and put her child into daycare so she could have more time for herself
When you’re in your 20s, you’re expected to make mistakes, learn from them, and ultimately ‘start to discover who you are as a person’. But one woman says she missed out on this stage in life as she was too busy ‘being a housewife’ after having a baby a short while after graduating from school.
She said on Reddit : “I had a baby in my early 20s and I never got to live my best life. We’re out here in Miami and all the other females my age are sleeping with rappers and going to parties and I never got that since I had to grow up so fast.”
In an attempt to make up for ‘lost time’, she ended her marriage and signed her daughter up to daycare so she could have more time for herself. However, two years later she regrets ever signing the divorce papers. She added: “When I was 25 I divorced my husband, went for alimony and child support and I got all of that in the divorce including our house. Now I deeply regret it.
“My daughter spends most of her time in daycare or with my parents and my ex-husband gets her a few times a month. We are both 27 now and my husband upgraded to a younger girl now and it makes me jealous.
“She’s 20 and I saw on his Facebook that they have been engaged and she’s pregnant and my daughter is going to have a half-sister and it makes me jealous. It’s crazy that men can replace us with a younger hotter girl so quickly it kind of makes my heart sad.”
Seeking advice on social media, she added: “I’m a bit older and a little wiser than I was when I was in my early 20s. But I miss the housewife life now and I hate that my husband is flourishing out here and I’m kind of hitting the wall being almost 30.”
While most users shared their shock over her admission, others tried to give her a wake-up call. One user said: “You are kidding right? You are mad that he replaced you? That is literally what you wanted to do to him. You dumped him so you could replace him with rappers who use women [for sex].
“You replaced yourself. Don’t knock on men when you literally tried to replace him And in the process, you sold the house, his child, and his money. And for the love of God, please let your ex-husband have his daughter more. He should have more time with her than the daycare workers.”
Another user added: “You’re mad he replaced you when you are the one who filed for a divorce because you wanted to sleep around, goodbye.” A third user said: “Let me get this right, you divorced your husband because you wanted to sleep around, and are now upset that he moved on? Dang, your husband dodged a bullet with you.”
