‘My fiancé demands I wear red at our wedding as I’m not a virgin – I’m furious’

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A bride-to-be has told how her fiancé has demands she wears red instead of white to their wedding, so she doesn’t ‘deceive’ guests into thinking she’s a virgin

A bride-to-be has revealed how her fiancé’s behaviour in the lead up to their wedding has left her questioning if he is really the one to say ‘I do’ too. The US-based woman said she was ‘disgusted’ by her partner’s comments after he told her he thought she should wear a red dress instead of white, for a reason she said was a clear ‘red flag’.

She said: “I’ve been with my fiancé for six years and engaged for the past eight months. I’ve been doing most of the wedding planning, but my fiancé will give his input here and there.” However after she had said yes to the dress, she was less than impressed to find out his thoughts on what she should be wearing: “Out of nowhere he said he was talking to some of his coworkers and thinks that I shouldn’t wear a white dress.

He is a very artistic guy, so I figured this was more about how the photos would turn out, or something along those lines, but I’m set on wearing white. I told him this and I could see that he was annoyed, but he let it go.” However when she brought her dream dress home, she wasn’t prepared for his reaction: “He asked me to tell him what colour it was, and when I said white, he threw a fit.”

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She then revealed he believed her choice would be ‘deceitful’ to their guests: “He told me that brides only wear white when they are pure.” After revealing her fiancé had been a virgin when they met while she had had a previous boyfriend, she admitted it had led to many heated arguments between the pair: “We almost didn’t continue dating because of how insecure he felt.”

And while she had believed this was no longer a problem for her husband-to-be, she said she was truly ‘blindsided’ by his bridal dress reaction: “This has made me question even marrying this man. I don’t know if it’s just because everything is so fresh, but I’m really disgusted by him. He’s not even religious, so I know this is just about him still thinking about me losing my virginity at 18 before I even knew him. I just needed to rant to anyone about how psycho this is.”

After taking her dress distress to Reddit, readers were clearly on her side, with one commenting: “I honestly think he has some pretty big insecurities and issues that need professional help, because this sounds crazy,” said one, while another commented: “I’d seriously consider what you are signing up for. Dude sounds messed up.”

“Not saying you need to dump him, but at least acknowledge the growth he needs to work on before you commit to him for life,” stressed another, while one said it was a major red flag: “Hell will be the next stop. It’s so archaic and gross.”

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